DEAR ABBY

[One day, a lock box appears in one of the common areas. Dear Abby is written on the side, along with instructions:
Deposit your concerns, share what ails you, and Abby will advise.
For your privacy, the acceptable format for your letter is as follows:
Dear Abby,
I have a concern.
Signed, Concerned Writer
(Your name should always be a one or two word summary of your concern.)]
no subject
I have recently lost my virginity. Well I don't mean lost, exactly, I know where it was. My point is, I don't really know where to go from here, since it was a fairy thing. I mean the magical kind, not the--never mind.
Anyway, after that someone offered to continue things casually. I don't know if I should, since I've never done anything like that before. I don't mean morally. I'm just not sure if that's "me," you know? And stuff on the Barge seems like it could get more complicated than it has to be.
What should I do?
Signed,
Sex Is Nice